I believe...
I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
posted by Blue @ 11:28 pm
60 Comments:
Re "you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself" ...
Trust needs a daring heart.. A heart, that will never allow lies and betraying's experience from the past to transform him/her to a prisoner haunted by fears and suspicions.
and I belive that things happen just because they are supposed to happen. Out there Some One is doing things, they way He want to do and our opinion and our belief does not matter in the way He is doing things. What we have to do as living beings and only for our sake is to be positive and not to give up and be strong for our sake to see what else is going to happen. We have one choice, to cry, complain or to ignore and try to be happy, and I personally think that trying to be happy is a better choice as it do less harm and less low mood than constant complaining and crying.
Dear Anonymous,you are 100% correct : )..
I support your view fully. Life is short, no need to waste it on complaining, crying and questioning people attention …Just accept them as they are, because we are all different in some way and another.
"Life is simple, it's just not easy."
its not simple, neither easy, its just life, a mixture of many things. what things? most of us don't know and need another life to understand.
"My love is alive way down in my heart...
Although we are miles apart
If you ever need a helping hand
I'll be there on the double just as fast as I can.........
Don't you know that there..
ain't no mountain high enough....
ain't no valley low enough...
ain't no river wide enough....
To keep me from getting to you."
"He who has a why to live can bear with almost any how."
and "he/she who is truly loves must learn to weep"
"Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and as difficult as that."
Dear Lilac, there is enough crying without love so why you want the one in love to do the same????? Love is supposed to bring happiness not tears!!!
Dear Anonymous, what you are saying it’s in “theory only”, most of the time Love = tears. Specially when the person loves someone who doesn’t hold the same feeling. But I agree with you that love should bring happiness.:):)
practical is based on thoery and thats the success of any theory...well in that case if love=tears I would personally suggest to stay away from this evil, do something better which is healthy, and I know crying is not.:)
Unfortunately no one can live without this “sweet evil”.
This is life simple but not easy as blue said :):)
By the way I am doing something better and healthy too which...is listening to music:):) and one last point, cry is also good because its remind us that we are human:):)
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
Dear Lilac, I agree to disagree as Respect+trust+care= Love
If love is not based on these elements or miss any one of them then it will bring tears and suffering. I do agree that our tears and suffering and tender feelings do make us more humane, but suffering in love should not bring tears as our belief in the loved one should help us in becoming more strong.
Also I do not consider one sided love as Love. In my view our love for any thing is capable enough of making other person aware of our feelings, if not then what is the use of running after someone who does not appreciate our feelings, our respect? In such a situation we, ourselves deserve our respect and love more than anyone else and should take pity on ourself as a person and stop a step before entering into such a disastrous situation/relationship, as everyone has the right to have a better and happy life without harming/hurting ourselves and others.
Now thats a long lecture:);)
Yes it is :) ,
You are right and I agree with your words .. and I believe that life is short so why do we waste in crying? … I guess there are many things a person can do and be happy … believe me when I say I witness a tremendous suffering (in my field of work) and I know the meaning of be alive :) so enjoy it:)I will stop here and not going to add additional words because I guess we colonized Blue blog:):)
thanks Lilac. Well Blue should be happy, atleast to read our golden words here ;)
now its over to you Blue,you can talk/write now:)
“When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure”
Do Oaks have any choice? maybe not, but humans do have a choice. And its not about difficulties making us strong, as we become strong only when we choose our own path,otherwise difficulties imposed on us only make one break as we don't have the will to fight.Maybe I am wrong,but that is what I think that if we take our own decisions,good or bad, we have the fire in us to stand up to anything,otherwise in case of any thing imposed brings no strength,no happiness.
روی علف ها چکیده ام
من شبنم خواب آلود یک ستاره ام
که روی علف های تاریکی چکیده ام
جایم اینجا نبود
نجوای نمناک علف ها را می شنوم
جایم اینجا نبود
discrimination;) does the above post for the eyes of few people only!!!! lol
"Words want to be free!"
"They don't always happen when you ask..
And it's easy to give in to your fears..
But when your blinded by your pain
Can't see your way straight through the rain..
A small but still, resilient voice
Says love is very near.."
جا مانده است
چیزی جایی
که هیچ گاه دیگر
هیچ چیز
جایش را پر نخواهد کرد
نخست دیر زمانی در او نگریستم
چندان که نظر از وی بازگرفتم
در پیرامون من همه چیز به هیئت او در آمده بود
آنگاه دانستم که مرا دیگر از او گریزی نیست
"If you believe in who you are..
Who you were always meant to be..
If you open up your heart,then you'll set your spirit free..
In this time of the season,
every leaf on every tree,
will start to shine..
Come and see...
Take my hand...
Come with me and fly...
Always standing right beside you...
One true friend is there to guide you...""
“Let your heart guide you. It whispers softly, so listen closely.”
"Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words..
Killing me softly with his song..
Telling my whole life with his words..
Killing me softly.."
It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, "Always do what you are afraid to do."
you right blue...its more fun doing things one is afraid to do...but then what if one is thinking of committing suicide,jumping from a mountain, or harming someone else, should one go ahead with that too!!!
Anonymous you are right, but I suggest taking the positive side of the advice :)
Blue, حيرتنى معك :):)
"Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood."
''Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.''
"There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure".So listen to your heart when he's calling for you"
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit."
سلام يا غروب القلب الاخير"
سلام يا طلوع فجر الرحيل
سلام يا حزن لحظات الفراق
وداعا يا شعر اليالى المقمرة
وداعا يا قصة الحب
وداعا ايه العشق الازرق الزاهى
ودعا يا عبق اشعار اليل
ودعا يا خليلى الدائم
ودعا يا لوعة قلبى الحارقة
لن تبقى وحيدا يا من بقيت دونى
اودعك للقلوب المتعبة
استودعك عند القمر
استودعك فى احضان البحر
لو كنت منكسر من السهر والارق
فساودعك لاحلام الغد
أودعك الى اليل كى لا يحترق
أودعك الى القلب كى لا يموت
إن لم تجف ينابيع الكلمات حزنا
وإن لم يسلب هذا الزمان صوتى
ودعا يا ذخر قلبى
ودعا يا من كنت ترافقنى دائما كالظل
.."ودعا يا ربيعى المتجدد دائما
"Doubt everything. Find your own light."
''My husband and I divorced over religious differences. He thought he was God, and I didn't.''
"My wife suggested a book for me to read to enhance our relationship. It’s titled, 'Women are from Venus, Men are Wrong'."
''Here's to the men that we love, and here's to the men that love us, But the men that we love, Aren't the men that love us, So to hell with the men. Here's to us!''
"My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met."
and that was the start of eye opening miserable life,and we lived happy miserable life ever after...!?
"Love is blind, marriage is the eye-opener."
''Women always worry about the things that men forget; men always worry about the things women remember.''
خیز که در می رسو موکب سلطان گل
"Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invaribly they are both disappointed."
خیز و در کاسه زر آب طربناک انداز
خیز و در کاسه زر آب طربناک انداز
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too many words but nothing...
"We are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out."
ofcourse u r...
Seems more like war of words here!!
why you deleted the comment up there blue?
I didn't
Don't believe!
“To believe or not to believe,it’s your choice”
Happy New Year and love you all:)
“What you see and hear depends a good deal on where you are standing; it also depends on what kind of a person you are”
Thanks Lilac, Wish you a very happy new year ahead! ( my reply is based on assumption that your wish was towards no one specific :):)
Dear Anonymous: your assumption was right ... My wishes and love to all of you :):)
"Be good, be good!"
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