"Sometimes you have to stop worrying,wondering,and doubting. Have faith that things will work out,maybe not how you planned,but just how it’s meant to be"
هجرتُ أحبتي طوعاً لأني" رأيت قلوبهم تهوى فراقي أشتاق لقائهم غير أني وضعت كرامتي فوق اشتياقي وأرغب وصلهم دوماً ولكن "طريق الذل لا تهواه ساقي "فسحقا لكل من عذب و خان واستهان بمشاعر انسان"
There comes a point in life when you realize: Who matters ... Who never did ... Who won't anymore ... And who always will! So don't worry about people from your past ... there's a reason why they didn't make it into your future.
" There is a candle in the heart of man, waiting to be kindled. In separation from the Friend, there is a cut waiting to be stitched. O, you who are ignorant of endurance and the burning fire of love. Love comes of its own free will, it can't be learned in any school"
"Only trust someone who can see these three things in you: The sorrow behind your smile, The love behind your anger, and the reason behind your silence"
Dear Anonymous, welcome back.... although that I said it’s my last comments, but I couldn’t stopped myself from answering your question:):)....First of all you haven’t missed any fight. In life sometimes our best friends hurts us unconsciously, and we tend to forgive not because they are our friends, but also because we remember all the good/bad/happy/sad times that they been there for us. So what I am try to say here even if you been hurt by your friend, do not prosecute him/her, remember first the time they been there for you when you needed them and then share and express your feeling. And I am 100% sure they will express their apology and they will never do it again ...because simply they don’t want to loss you as best friend. So what do you think anonymous?
Dear Lilac, though what you wrote is confusing, but I try to give a reply to your question. Firstly one must know that ''ego'' takes us no where except to a dead end path. Secondly, I believe that there must not be any ego when it comes to relationship,be it with family or friends. In our life we encounter many situations where due to one reason or another we hurt someone, intentionally or unintentionally, but I think the moment we realise that the fault was ours, we must have the COURAGE and DIGNITY to go to that person whom we have hurt and apologise!!! It is hard, but this is the solution. If we want other person to express their feelings then we should try to show the same!! Also, I also believe that family and friends should be forgiven again and again and again for their faults, this is how the relationships grow. Whenever we encounter a difficult situation if we try to put ourselves in the shoes of the other person who might have hurt us in some way then then we may be able to know the reason of other persons behaviour. If I hurt a friend of mine,in any manner, the moment I realise it, I go and say sorry, at least it gives me a clear conscience, the rest is left to other person's choice then. But we must also know that we meet a lot of people in our lives, but not all of them are our friends; sometime we may think so but it is with time which acts a a sieve or filter that we know the difference between real friends and and the so called friends to whom friendship is just another word and who do not believe in the beauty of this relationship. I would say, forgive, forget and move on...and if you cannot forgive then at least forget and be thankful that you saw the real face of any such ''friend'' sooner than later!! Hope this satisfied your question:)
Dear Anonymous thank you very much for your honest answer... I have nothing to add, what you have mentioned is clear and fair enough. Welcome back and please do not disappear again:):)
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“So close no matter how far Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trust in who we are
And nothing else matters
Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
And nothing else matters
Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters”
"If you would create something,
you must be something."
"لقد كتمت الهوى حتى تهيبني
لا استطيع لهذا الحب كتمان
لا بارك الله في الدنيا
إذا انقطعت أسباب دنياك من أسباب دنياي"
ولقد ذكرتك والرماح نواهل مني"
وبيض الهند تقطر من دمـى
فوددت تقبيل السيوف لأنهـا
"لمعت كبارق ثغرك المتبسم:)
"Don't worry about a thing, every little thing is gonna be alright"
& every big things,we need just time :)
& every big things,we need just time :)
"Time goes, you say? Ah, no! alas, time stays, we go."
آدم ها هیچ کدام این قصه را باور نمی کنند
زمان زود از دست میره ٬ زود دیر میشه
"It gets late early out there."
من ألف الحب بكى..من شفه الشوق شكى
من غاب عنه إلفه..أو صد عنه، هلك
يا مالكا عذبني، بجوره.. إن ملك
رفقا بمملوكك.. لا يحل الظلم لك
"Sometimes you have to stop
worrying,wondering,and doubting.
Have faith that things will work out,maybe not how you planned,but just how it’s meant to be"
“When in doubt, don't.”
"Don’t change so people will like you.
Be yourself and the right people will love the real you"
هجرتُ أحبتي طوعاً لأني"
رأيت قلوبهم تهوى فراقي
أشتاق لقائهم غير أني
وضعت كرامتي فوق اشتياقي
وأرغب وصلهم دوماً ولكن
"طريق الذل لا تهواه ساقي
"فسحقا لكل من عذب و خان
واستهان بمشاعر انسان"
"Be that self which one truly is."
There comes a point in life when you realize:
Who matters ...
Who never did ...
Who won't anymore ...
And who always will!
So don't worry about people from your past ... there's a reason why they didn't make it into your future.
so true!!!!!!!!!!!
"What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are tiny matters compared to what lives within us."
لا تطلب الخير من بطون جاعت
ثم شبعت لأن الشح فيها باق
بل أطلب الخير من بطون شبعت
ثم جاعت لأن الخير فيها باق
" There is a candle in the heart of man, waiting to be kindled.
In separation from the Friend, there is a cut waiting to be
stitched.
O, you who are ignorant of endurance and the burning fire of love.
Love comes of its own free will, it can't be learned in any school"
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
"In your light,
I learn how to love.
In your beauty,
how to make poems"
"Always be a poet, even in prose."
"Only trust someone who can see these three things in you:
The sorrow behind your smile,
The love behind your anger,
and the reason behind your silence"
My last ever comment:"If you are going to kill me, kill me, it is alright.
When the friend kills, a new life will rise"
"Let not a man guard his dignity, but let his dignity guard him."
what happening? Seems I missed another big fight here!!!!!!!:(
Dear Anonymous, welcome back.... although that I said it’s my last comments, but I couldn’t stopped myself from answering your question:):)....First of all you haven’t missed any fight.
In life sometimes our best friends hurts us unconsciously, and we tend to forgive not because they are our friends, but also because we remember all the good/bad/happy/sad times that they been there for us. So what I am try to say here even if you been hurt by your friend, do not prosecute him/her, remember first the time they been there for you when you needed them and then share and express your feeling. And I am 100% sure they will express their apology and they will never do it again ...because simply they don’t want to loss you as best friend.
So what do you think anonymous?
Dear Lilac, though what you wrote is confusing, but I try to give a reply to your question.
Firstly one must know that ''ego'' takes us no where except to a dead end path.
Secondly, I believe that there must not be any ego when it comes to relationship,be it with family or friends. In our life we encounter many situations where due to one reason or another we hurt someone, intentionally or unintentionally, but I think the moment we realise that the fault was ours, we must have the COURAGE and DIGNITY to go to that person whom we have hurt and apologise!!! It is hard, but this is the solution. If we want other person to express their feelings then we should try to show the same!!
Also, I also believe that family and friends should be forgiven again and again and again for their faults, this is how the relationships grow. Whenever we encounter a difficult situation if we try to put ourselves in the shoes of the other person who might have hurt us in some way then then we may be able to know the reason of other persons behaviour.
If I hurt a friend of mine,in any manner, the moment I realise it, I go and say sorry, at least it gives me a clear conscience, the rest is left to other person's choice then.
But we must also know that we meet a lot of people in our lives, but not all of them are our friends; sometime we may think so but it is with time which acts a a sieve or filter that we know the difference between real friends and and the so called friends to whom friendship is just another word and who do not believe in the beauty of this relationship.
I would say, forgive, forget and move on...and if you cannot forgive then at least forget and be thankful that you saw the real face of any such ''friend'' sooner than later!!
Hope this satisfied your question:)
Dear Anonymous thank you very much for your honest answer... I have nothing to add, what you have mentioned is clear and fair enough. Welcome back and please do not disappear again:):)
Thanks Lilac!!Life is busy, but it is good to know that I was missed:):)
"Everything has been figured out, except how to live."
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